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About Nique, what is her background?

My lifemission is to create a world where people are allowed to embrace and rejoice themselves and therefor the others just the way they are,
acknowledging and even celebrating all their kinks and supposed flaws.
I do this trough talks, workshops and one-on-one sessions focussing on real openness on and in BDSM.
Opening up about emotions in the talks and workshops,
and by honoring any feeling that might pop up during workshops and one-on-one BDSM sessions.

I ACTUALLY COME FROM THE DEEP, DARK SIDE…

Very soon after I found out that my fantasies weren’t abnormal, yet fitted into the BDSM, a profesional Dominatrix invited me to come and work with her.
I loved it, submerging myself in anything BDSM I could find.
Yet, stigma and fear for my safety was there too.
My way of survival was one that most of us know;
building an emotional shield. Using a “persona” to keep the inner core safe.
And this ice-queen in her ivory tower figure worked for me… for quite a while.

THEN, THE LIGHT CAME IN
I was always attracted to alternative forms of living,
thinking and following spirituality.
From 2010 on, I started to go to personal growth groups.
The change towards happyness in my life was so clear,

that it hooked from the first moment.
I decided to follow the teachers-training and slowly but surely,
all the shield could be let down,
because I came to terms with myself.
Yet, I wasn’t sure how (professional) BDSM and this “lightwork” could be joined together.

INTUITIVELY I KNEW THE UNION WOULD BE POSSIBLE.

 

I had noticed that people who knew me deeply could totally accept my both sides even if they couldn’t grasp it.
So I started out searching for people who, like me, had this very wide spectrum of personality.
And I found them in the Conscious Kink scene.
In 2017 I flew to San Francisco, to attend a course on Therapeutic and Shamanic Kink intensive course at the Sensual Somatic institute .

In 2018 I felt finally ready to step up to be a spaceholder in a intensive weeklong course and I had the pleasure of working with Seani Love in one of his “Deep Dive” held in Spain.

In 2019 the Urban Tantra Practitioners Course by Barbara Carrellas and her team plus all the wonderful profesionals at that course helped me to cristalize my intuitive hunch of how to bring those two worlds together.

This is surely not the end of the journey… it has only just begun, and I am thrilled to be able to invite you in with me!