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holistic ecstatic BDSM sessions

Are you a person that enjoys bdsm?

Congratulations,

from there it´s only a tiny step
to get into a full blown ecstatic tantric experience!

So many people think kink and tantra don’t go together,

that BDSM is all about being harsh and mean to each other and tantra is all about feeling the love.

Both assumptions are not true.

As Barbara Carrellas mentions in her book: Urban Tantra,
“both are erotic arts of consciousness  that produce intense erotic sensations that can creat prolonged ecstatic states of arousal and altered states of consciousness”.

For most BDSM people it’s easier to get into tantric experiences than the “vanillas”, as you already are familiar with how much erotic energy can merge from the body that are not the genitals!

And we don’t need to go all woo-woo on chakras and other theories.

Tantra is all about staying present, feel and acknowledge all that is happening in the body.

 

So what is the difference with a regular BDSM session?

Well, more than playing out a fantasy, we will explore what is present in you.
Which means we don’t follow strict, pre-set rules, we will go with what is needed in every moment.

This means there is space for any emotion to come out.
And this can be laughter, yet also sadness or anger.
As a trained therapist I welcome all
and am able to support you
during this process.

 

Is this scary? Hell yes! Only the very braves dare to go into the dark realms of themselves!

WHAT DOES A  CONSCIOUS BDSM SESSION LOOK LIKE?

First we’ll sit down to talk about you.
What your experiences are so far, what you hope to get out of the session.
What your boundaries are.

Then we’ll both get into the outfits that we are comfortable with.

We’ll do a short meditation, or eye gazing or if we see fit, a more ritualistic beginning.

Body of the session:
within the previous set according we’ll go into the BDSM dynamics and flow with what’s there.

After the session has finished, there is after-care space. This can be a simple glass of water and a chat, or a cuddle-up, held in my arms or anything else that is needed for your wellbeing a that time.

In the week that follows after the session I will check in on you to see how you are doing,

for many times “aha-moments” come when the experience settles in.

FAQ: Will it still be hot?

It will be as soft or as hot as is right for the moment.
I still have all the tricks and treats of my +10 years of Professional Dominatrix experiences at my fingertips.
And making conscious choices when and where to go there will probably make it way more mindblowing for both of us.