Your first BDSM experience could very well start with a conscious kink session.
Going to see a profesional Dominatrix for a BDSM session might seem quite a daunting task.
Often their announcements show that they will take the lead from the very beginning and that you will hardly have any say in the experience of the session.
Choosing to start off with a conscious kink session might be a very wise and safe option.
As you are allowed to be “in charge” as much as you feel you need to be.
Letting go of control is often a dificult thing to do. Especially with a complete stranger.
I often see people being very nervous at the beginning of our session, and that when we have talked a little, these tensions grow less.
That is the first part. It’s a moment where you can ask anything.
And where I will ask you deep questions.
With those answers I will have a pretty good idea where I can lead you once the hands-on part of the session begins.
There will be no shouting or denigration unless you have told me specifically that that is a practice you would like to investigate.
You will also be given verbal tools that are indicators of how hard and deep you want to go in given moments.
Tools that I will acknowledge at any time.
AND I will praise you for using them.
It’s wonderful that you keep yourself safe!